Since Ellie has started a blog about going to London, it inspired me to update ours. A lot of time has passed since May ... and Mike continues to grow stronger all the time. He is back to doing everything he wants to do, as long as he takes a little nap in the afternoon. He doesn't seem to mind that a bit!
I think he really turned a corner about three weeks ago when he played nine holes of golf and cut the grass all in one day -- and then felt fine the next day. All that walking he has been doing is really paying off!
He went to the cardiologist a couple of weeks ago and after some tests was told his heart is at about 33% capacity right now. But it hasn't even been six months yet, so that's ok. He was told it would take 6 months to a year to fully recover. So he continues to monitor everything from home (he is very disciplined about it) and pace himself and otherwise is back to normal. Thanks be to God.
Life is busy, but we are doing well. It will be strange having two daughters out of the country this Fall. Ellie leaves for London Thursday and Beth for Toronto the beginning of November (new job). Hope you are well, too. Much love! Peggy
Monday, September 21, 2009
Saturday, May 23, 2009
Update
Greetings all,
I continue to get a little better each day. The doctors have given me permission to begin picking up the tasks that made up my life three months ago. The cardiologist said that I can do whatever my body permits, i.e. if it hurts don't do it, when you are tired rest. The surgeon has given me clearance to return to work the week of May 25th. These along with permission to drive once again have been major mileposts.
I do need to learn the boundaries of my strength and endurance. Last week I puttered around in the garden and have been paying the price in feeling tired ever since. Still, being out was wonderful.
My plan is to return to the pulpit on Pentecost, May 31st.
Thanks for your continued prayers and concerns. They mean a lot and have made a difference.
Grace and peace,
Mike
I continue to get a little better each day. The doctors have given me permission to begin picking up the tasks that made up my life three months ago. The cardiologist said that I can do whatever my body permits, i.e. if it hurts don't do it, when you are tired rest. The surgeon has given me clearance to return to work the week of May 25th. These along with permission to drive once again have been major mileposts.
I do need to learn the boundaries of my strength and endurance. Last week I puttered around in the garden and have been paying the price in feeling tired ever since. Still, being out was wonderful.
My plan is to return to the pulpit on Pentecost, May 31st.
Thanks for your continued prayers and concerns. They mean a lot and have made a difference.
Grace and peace,
Mike
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Saturday, May 9, 2009
Slow, But Steady
Greetings! I've been pretty busy with work lately, so I haven't updated the blog much. I try to get my husband to do it more often (he is just sitting around most of the time, isn't he?), but he says he doesn't like talking about himself ... hmmm. I guess that shouldn't surprise me.
So, how is he doing? He is doing very well. I can see improvement every day - he is up and around all the time now, doing things for himself again, out walking the neighborhood for 30 minutes at a time with me, taking an interest in the life around himself ... all very good signs! I know he is getting impatient, and I try and take him out and about whenever I can, but he is actually doing quite amazingly well ... he just can't see it as clearly as the rest of us can.
We went to see the cardiologist last Thursday, and he got a very good report. His heart is still weak, but the doctor said this is quite normal and that it would take 6 months to a year for it to fully recover. In the meantime, he can do whatever he feels good enough to do without pushing himself too hard.
Mike goes back to the surgeon next Wednesday and I anticipate he will be told he can drive again. He hopes to be back at work (at least part time at first) the last week of May, and presiding at liturgy the last Sunday in May. I'll report after that appointment whether the surgeon thinks that is all ok.
So, life goes on. Beth and Ellie have been on vacation together this past week - Ellie finished her fourth semester at Capital University with a 4.0 (go Ellie), and Beth certainly deserved a break from caregiver to her dad. It sounds like they had a great time. They are due home tomorrow. Megan and Luke and the boys came by last Sunday, bringing Mike's mom along for the ride, and it was great to see them, as always. When they got out of the car and Megan told Jack to come on inside to see Grampa he said, "Grampa, yea!" Actually we all feel that way whenever we get to hang out with Mike. Many blessings to you all ... and thanks for the continued interest and prayers! Peggy
So, how is he doing? He is doing very well. I can see improvement every day - he is up and around all the time now, doing things for himself again, out walking the neighborhood for 30 minutes at a time with me, taking an interest in the life around himself ... all very good signs! I know he is getting impatient, and I try and take him out and about whenever I can, but he is actually doing quite amazingly well ... he just can't see it as clearly as the rest of us can.
We went to see the cardiologist last Thursday, and he got a very good report. His heart is still weak, but the doctor said this is quite normal and that it would take 6 months to a year for it to fully recover. In the meantime, he can do whatever he feels good enough to do without pushing himself too hard.
Mike goes back to the surgeon next Wednesday and I anticipate he will be told he can drive again. He hopes to be back at work (at least part time at first) the last week of May, and presiding at liturgy the last Sunday in May. I'll report after that appointment whether the surgeon thinks that is all ok.
So, life goes on. Beth and Ellie have been on vacation together this past week - Ellie finished her fourth semester at Capital University with a 4.0 (go Ellie), and Beth certainly deserved a break from caregiver to her dad. It sounds like they had a great time. They are due home tomorrow. Megan and Luke and the boys came by last Sunday, bringing Mike's mom along for the ride, and it was great to see them, as always. When they got out of the car and Megan told Jack to come on inside to see Grampa he said, "Grampa, yea!" Actually we all feel that way whenever we get to hang out with Mike. Many blessings to you all ... and thanks for the continued interest and prayers! Peggy
Monday, May 4, 2009
The Middle Part of the Journey
Things are progressing, albeit slowly from my perspective. I feel too good to be sitting around healing, but not good enough to be doing anything for very long.
This week will be my third week in rehab. I thought it would be enjoyable, but it turns out to be a lot like work. This is not to say that I do not enjoy going, being around people and stretching my muscles, I do enjoy that and look forward to each session, however, it is more demanding than I anticipated. I don't come away sore, I come away tired. I look forward to the time when my strength and endurance return.
Despite my impatience, I confess that I do see many signs of improvement. Yesterday I attended church. It was wonderful to be back. Singing "This Is the Feast" and other parts of the liturgy was very moving. I really appreciated Pastor Steve Rye's sermon and the way he presided at the service. Being with the people of Gloria Dei was a great blessing. I am excited to be moving back toward full participation in parish life.
Peace,
Mike
This week will be my third week in rehab. I thought it would be enjoyable, but it turns out to be a lot like work. This is not to say that I do not enjoy going, being around people and stretching my muscles, I do enjoy that and look forward to each session, however, it is more demanding than I anticipated. I don't come away sore, I come away tired. I look forward to the time when my strength and endurance return.
Despite my impatience, I confess that I do see many signs of improvement. Yesterday I attended church. It was wonderful to be back. Singing "This Is the Feast" and other parts of the liturgy was very moving. I really appreciated Pastor Steve Rye's sermon and the way he presided at the service. Being with the people of Gloria Dei was a great blessing. I am excited to be moving back toward full participation in parish life.
Peace,
Mike
Monday, April 20, 2009
Week 4 Begins
Greetings to all.
I continue to feel a little better each day. A routine has become established for my days. Up with Peggy around 6; dress, take pre-breakfast medicines, Beth arrives and fixes breakfast, take post-breakfast medicines, read the papers, nap ... well you get the idea, nothing too exciting. Which come to think of it is as it should be. Looking out our front window a good portion of the day I am reminded of the Hitchcock movie, Rear Window, with Jimmy Steward. I can report that things in Mulberry are much more quiet than in the New York of that movie. Although, last Saturday was town clean up day and I was able to wittness a parade of trucks and trailers taking trash to the dumpsters at the end of the street. My neighbors have been looking out for me and took my contribution to the dumptsers. Great town, Great neighbors! Thanks be to God.
Thank you all for the cards, visits and phone calls. They are appreciated.
Peace,
Mike
I continue to feel a little better each day. A routine has become established for my days. Up with Peggy around 6; dress, take pre-breakfast medicines, Beth arrives and fixes breakfast, take post-breakfast medicines, read the papers, nap ... well you get the idea, nothing too exciting. Which come to think of it is as it should be. Looking out our front window a good portion of the day I am reminded of the Hitchcock movie, Rear Window, with Jimmy Steward. I can report that things in Mulberry are much more quiet than in the New York of that movie. Although, last Saturday was town clean up day and I was able to wittness a parade of trucks and trailers taking trash to the dumpsters at the end of the street. My neighbors have been looking out for me and took my contribution to the dumptsers. Great town, Great neighbors! Thanks be to God.
Thank you all for the cards, visits and phone calls. They are appreciated.
Peace,
Mike
Thursday, April 16, 2009
Every Day Is Better Than The One Before!
We went to see the surgeon again today, and it was a very brief appointment ... which is wonderful! He said Mike is doing great, that his strength and energy will continue to get better every day, and he'll see us again in four weeks. Good news all around. He has been watching Mike very carefully, and the fact that we don't have to go back for four weeks is a great sign in and of itself.
Mike does continue to get better every day ... he enjoyed taking a walk in the sunshine with Beth today. He has been having more visitors, and he really enjoys seeing people. He is very grateful that people are remembering him in their prayers, with their calls and visits and cards. It is amazing how important these things are ... I have made a pledge to myself to be better in the future about such things ... they truly make all of the difference in the world.
Thank you for your continued support. We have the greatest family, parish, co-workers and friends we could ever want. We are humbled by your love and support. Peggy
Mike does continue to get better every day ... he enjoyed taking a walk in the sunshine with Beth today. He has been having more visitors, and he really enjoys seeing people. He is very grateful that people are remembering him in their prayers, with their calls and visits and cards. It is amazing how important these things are ... I have made a pledge to myself to be better in the future about such things ... they truly make all of the difference in the world.
Thank you for your continued support. We have the greatest family, parish, co-workers and friends we could ever want. We are humbled by your love and support. Peggy
Sunday, April 12, 2009
Doesn't he look great?We got outside for a bit today ... he walked all the way to Max & Sarah's driveway!! Tomorrow perhaps all the way to the end of the street ... Now if it would just get a little warmer!!
I echo what Mike says (below) - it has been a wonderful Easter Sunday ... a bit out of the ordinary, but lovely nevertheless. We continue to be buoyed by the cards, phone calls and visits. As a matter of fact, I think the visits are very important in keeping up Mike's spirits, so if you are nearby and feel the urge, stop by!
The top picture is from inside - our fireplace which has been turned into a card display area. It's really cool to see! Happy Easter to everyone and thank you for your continued interest and prayers. He gets stronger every day! Peggy
Christ is risen
Happy Easter!
What a beautiful Easter day. For the first time in over 50 years I did not celebrate this glorious day in church, but I felt the presence of the Church throughout the day. Thanks to the people of Gloria Dei for the wonderful breakfast and tape of the service. Thanks too to Rob and Chris for bringing communion to Peggy and me.
Somedays it seems I make no progress, but looking at several days together I can see that in truth I am getting stronger as the weeks pass. Thank you all for your continued prayers and visits.
Peace,
Mike
What a beautiful Easter day. For the first time in over 50 years I did not celebrate this glorious day in church, but I felt the presence of the Church throughout the day. Thanks to the people of Gloria Dei for the wonderful breakfast and tape of the service. Thanks too to Rob and Chris for bringing communion to Peggy and me.
Somedays it seems I make no progress, but looking at several days together I can see that in truth I am getting stronger as the weeks pass. Thank you all for your continued prayers and visits.
Peace,
Mike
Thursday, April 9, 2009
I Believe In Miracles
That song, "I Believe In Miracles" keeps playing over and over again in my head this afternoon. Mike had a chest x-ray and blood work done today, followed by an appointment with the surgeon. When Dr. Kolla came in the room he said he had had to look at the x-ray three times to be sure he was, indeed, looking at the heart of Mike Crawford. He said he even double checked his patient number and matched it against the xray. He couldn't believe what he was seeing. For you see, what he saw, he told us, was a healthy heart!! He shook his head and said, "I don't understand!"
Well, we do. It's called a miracle! All of your prayers and positive thoughts have brought about this miracle, I have no doubt! I know that God is full of surprises, as I'm sure many of you have heard me say, but I guess Dr. Kolla doesn't know that!
He said he wants Mike to come back again in two weeks - then he said, kind of as an aside, that he usually doesn't see his surgery patients until 6 weeks after surgery but that Mike's case was so severe he wanted to keep a closer watch on him. I think he wants to see him in two weeks just to be sure the remarkable recovery is still happening. It will be, I'm sure. I believe in miracles!
So, on a more mundane level, Mike is getting stronger day to day. They took him off of several of the pills he has been taking this week, so he is very happy about that. He is sleeping better at night and eating good meals, so the energy will come back soon ... one day at a time. Many thanks to Beth for her excellent care this week, to Jackie Frey for the delicious dinner she brought by, and for the continued cards and calls and visits - they are wonderful!!
So, Easter has come early to the Crawford household. I will have a hard time keeping a Good Friday state of mind tomorrow because my heart is singing the praises of our awesome God! Thank you all again for raising such a ruckus toward heaven that God could not ignore. I believe in miracles -- each and every one of you is a miracle in our lives. Praise be to God! Peggy
Well, we do. It's called a miracle! All of your prayers and positive thoughts have brought about this miracle, I have no doubt! I know that God is full of surprises, as I'm sure many of you have heard me say, but I guess Dr. Kolla doesn't know that!
He said he wants Mike to come back again in two weeks - then he said, kind of as an aside, that he usually doesn't see his surgery patients until 6 weeks after surgery but that Mike's case was so severe he wanted to keep a closer watch on him. I think he wants to see him in two weeks just to be sure the remarkable recovery is still happening. It will be, I'm sure. I believe in miracles!
So, on a more mundane level, Mike is getting stronger day to day. They took him off of several of the pills he has been taking this week, so he is very happy about that. He is sleeping better at night and eating good meals, so the energy will come back soon ... one day at a time. Many thanks to Beth for her excellent care this week, to Jackie Frey for the delicious dinner she brought by, and for the continued cards and calls and visits - they are wonderful!!
So, Easter has come early to the Crawford household. I will have a hard time keeping a Good Friday state of mind tomorrow because my heart is singing the praises of our awesome God! Thank you all again for raising such a ruckus toward heaven that God could not ignore. I believe in miracles -- each and every one of you is a miracle in our lives. Praise be to God! Peggy
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
One More Thing ...
I forgot to mention that Ellie is coming home tomorrow for the weekend. Yea. Can't wait to see her! Peggy
We've All Got Our Jobs To Do
I went back to work Monday and Beth took over the home care very ably. Mike is doing his job of resting and healing. We're all doing our jobs! Mike slept well last night for the first time, he said, so he felt better today. He is still very weak and tired and his voice sounds funny, but he is slowly getting better. He goes to his regular doctor tomorrow and the surgeon on Thursday, so it will be good to have them check all of his numbers and see how he is really doing. My concern continues to be making sure he gets enough calories (while watching fats, salt and counting carbs) to start gaining back some of the 30 pounds he has lost since February. He is trying hard to eat well, but has little appetite.
As for me, I'm pretty swamped at work - we have a Holy Thursday all school prayer service this week, and I'm directing the next Kairos retreat April 21-24th ... so I am very grateful to Beth for being here so I don't have to worry about Mike while I'm at work.
Hopefully one of these days Mike will feel like blogging ... in the meantime, he really appreciates all of the calls, visits, cards and prayers. Thank you so much for caring! I'll report again after we see the surgeon on Thursday. Peggy
As for me, I'm pretty swamped at work - we have a Holy Thursday all school prayer service this week, and I'm directing the next Kairos retreat April 21-24th ... so I am very grateful to Beth for being here so I don't have to worry about Mike while I'm at work.
Hopefully one of these days Mike will feel like blogging ... in the meantime, he really appreciates all of the calls, visits, cards and prayers. Thank you so much for caring! I'll report again after we see the surgeon on Thursday. Peggy
Sunday, April 5, 2009
Sunday Musings
It has been raining here in Mulberry all day ... pouring, really. Quite a contrast to yesterday, which was sunny and beautiful (to celebrate, Mike walked the length of the driveway twice with me). I think it is supposed to snow tomorrow. That's Indiana for you! Mike and I have been enjoying a nice, quiet day together ... again. We really do enjoy just hanging out together, so the past week has been rather lovely. Probably more so for me than him ... he has the hard job these days.
He is doing very well and continues to make great progress and to be very patient with his slowly healing body. He still naps a lot, but he is keeping up with his breathing exercises and walking and taking all of the pills. We've been reading, watching movies together, doing crosswords (of course). I'm actually not looking forward to going back to work tomorrow -- I really do feel like I have had a spring break - it has been a very simple, peaceful existence, especially over the past three days. I hate to see it end. Beth is coming to be with Mike while I'm at work, so don't worry, he will be well cared for.
I asked him if he wanted to write something on the blog today; he said yes, but now he is snoozing, so I guess not. I'll mention that we had a wonderful visit this morning from Pr. Steve Rye who came by and read the Passion with us, sang a song (what a great voice!!), said and prayer and was on his way. It is one of the moments I will remember from this journey ... there have been so many such as that - so many kindnesses and graces (I'll mention two others from yesterday: Brett coming over and visiting with Mike while I went to the grocery, and Brenda and Pete Weflen bringing by a fabulous vegetable soup and some spaghetti which we will probably have for dinner tonight)! God is good! Even when it is rainy life can be very sunny. Thank your your continued concern! Peggy
He is doing very well and continues to make great progress and to be very patient with his slowly healing body. He still naps a lot, but he is keeping up with his breathing exercises and walking and taking all of the pills. We've been reading, watching movies together, doing crosswords (of course). I'm actually not looking forward to going back to work tomorrow -- I really do feel like I have had a spring break - it has been a very simple, peaceful existence, especially over the past three days. I hate to see it end. Beth is coming to be with Mike while I'm at work, so don't worry, he will be well cared for.
I asked him if he wanted to write something on the blog today; he said yes, but now he is snoozing, so I guess not. I'll mention that we had a wonderful visit this morning from Pr. Steve Rye who came by and read the Passion with us, sang a song (what a great voice!!), said and prayer and was on his way. It is one of the moments I will remember from this journey ... there have been so many such as that - so many kindnesses and graces (I'll mention two others from yesterday: Brett coming over and visiting with Mike while I went to the grocery, and Brenda and Pete Weflen bringing by a fabulous vegetable soup and some spaghetti which we will probably have for dinner tonight)! God is good! Even when it is rainy life can be very sunny. Thank your your continued concern! Peggy
Friday, April 3, 2009
It's good to be home
First day at home. A new wonderful routine. Woke up in my own bed. A short commute to the bottom of the stairs. Followed by a day of rest. A marathon is three times around the circle of living room, dining room, kitchen and hearth room. It's tiring but it feels great to be tired from exercise and not a tired heart.
I am so grateful for the thoughts, prayers, cards, and visits from so many people. I thank God for you all. I'll keep you posted on things as they progress. Mike
I am so grateful for the thoughts, prayers, cards, and visits from so many people. I thank God for you all. I'll keep you posted on things as they progress. Mike
Thursday, April 2, 2009
He's Home!!
Thanks be to God!! It was a long and arduous process, of course, (I got to the hospital at 9 a.m. and we arrived home at 1:30 p.m.) but he is home and doing great. He pretty much slept all afternoon, but it was in his own chair in his own living room! Life is good.
It took me over an hour to sort out the huge number of pills he has to take every day and put them into some order so I don't forget any of them ... but I did it - I'm entitled to an honorary pharmacy degree now, I think. I have no idea how doctors and pharmacists keep all of the drugs straight, but thank God that they do!
Mike got the go ahead to climb stairs, so tonight he will be getting a nice warm shower and sleeping in his own bed. Isn't it amazing how we take such luxuries for granted? We Americans are so blessed, aren't we?
So, I guess I continue in the "grateful" mode tonight. There was literally an army of people who contributed to getting him back home again, from doctors, nurses and hospital staff to each and every one of you caring so much for the two of us. I am awe struck and forever grateful. Thanks be to God!! Peggy
It took me over an hour to sort out the huge number of pills he has to take every day and put them into some order so I don't forget any of them ... but I did it - I'm entitled to an honorary pharmacy degree now, I think. I have no idea how doctors and pharmacists keep all of the drugs straight, but thank God that they do!
Mike got the go ahead to climb stairs, so tonight he will be getting a nice warm shower and sleeping in his own bed. Isn't it amazing how we take such luxuries for granted? We Americans are so blessed, aren't we?
So, I guess I continue in the "grateful" mode tonight. There was literally an army of people who contributed to getting him back home again, from doctors, nurses and hospital staff to each and every one of you caring so much for the two of us. I am awe struck and forever grateful. Thanks be to God!! Peggy
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Home Thursday ... If All Goes Well!
If all goes well tonight and the doctors get the numbers they want to see in the morning, Mike will be coming home tomorrow! He had another really good day today ... he's getting up out of the chair and bed on his own now, and took several walks - he even tackled the stairs! He said that was a little scary. I think our stairs at home will be less formidable - they are nice and wide and not too steep - we are both confident that he will do fine on them.
So everything is looking very good, and I look forward to having him home (and being able to be home myself). If you are thinking of visiting, I think waiting until the weekend is a good idea; he will need a couple of days to recover from the trip home -- that is always more exhausting than patients think it will be.
Our hearts are full of gratitude for the wonderful people at St. Elizabeth's and The Care Group. They couldn't have been more helpful and supportive and brilliant! God has truly blessed us in this journey so far and I have every confidence that will continue to be the case. Your prayers have made sure of that!!
Maybe tomorrow I can get Mike to blog a line or two ... we'll see ... Peace! Peggy
So everything is looking very good, and I look forward to having him home (and being able to be home myself). If you are thinking of visiting, I think waiting until the weekend is a good idea; he will need a couple of days to recover from the trip home -- that is always more exhausting than patients think it will be.
Our hearts are full of gratitude for the wonderful people at St. Elizabeth's and The Care Group. They couldn't have been more helpful and supportive and brilliant! God has truly blessed us in this journey so far and I have every confidence that will continue to be the case. Your prayers have made sure of that!!
Maybe tomorrow I can get Mike to blog a line or two ... we'll see ... Peace! Peggy
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Freedom Is A Wonderful Thing!
Not long after I took this picture today, Mike was disconnected from all tubes and lines ... yipee! No more IVs, no more chest tubes ... he's totally free of everything! He was up three times today walking the halls (that is one of his rehab nurses with him, Jackie). The last time was this evening after dinner with me -- we had an evening stroll together "around the block" -- it was lovely.
Doesn't he look great? The red thing is his "heart pillow" which is actually oval shaped. He uses it to splint his chest when he gets up or coughs, that kind of thing. He is feeling very good, and if all goes well, they say he can come home Thursday or Friday. I am so ready for him to come home! He is going to practice stairs tomorrow morning with Jackie so that he can go upstairs here at home and sleep in his own bed.
So, all is well, and we are greatly encouraged with his swift progress this week. Dr. Kolla continues to be happy with how he is doing as well. I know it will be a challenge when he comes home, but I'm ready for it. I know the effort will exhaust him for a couple of days ... but that's to be expected. One day at a time!! Thanks for your continued interest, prayers, cards, blog comments and emails. They mean the world to us! Time to go put my feet up! Peggy
Monday, March 30, 2009
"He's Doing Great ..." says Dr. Kolla
Today was an excellent day! True to his word, "Mike the Nurse" let Mike the patient sleep last night - and he got six uninterrupted hours of sleep! That is a miracle in itself in a hospital! This morning when I saw him I immediately thought, "my husband is back!" He looked rested, he felt good, he was relaxed and peaceful. Sleep is a beautiful thing! I brought the bear Ellie made for him today, and he was showing all of the nurses and Pastor Will who came to visit ... it was very cute.
He had the PIC line put in this morning before I got there, but that didn't seem to be a big deal. He also walked all the way down the hall twice - I think the therpist said 200 feet or so. But the best part was that when he was done he didn't immediately fall asleep! He stayed up in the chair from 10:30 this morning until he got back into bed at 8:00 tonight. Oh, and he was reading the paper and magazines, too. I have been watching for his insatiable interest in reading to return. Today was the day.
So it was a VERY good day on a lot of fronts despite the negligent nurse he had today ... I was glad I was sitting there to help him with stuff - she was nowhere to be found for hours at a time! But she is not the norm at St. Elizabeth's, luckily. He has had wonderful care which has allowed me to sleep peacefully at night.
Dr. Kolla came to see him this afternoon and sat down and chatted for a while. He said they are taking things slowly but that he is very pleased with Mike's progress. He thought that mid to late week he can expect to come home. So, all is well ... God is good ... I believe in miracles ... and the power of love and prayer. I am very happy just sitting near him all day - there is no place I would rather be. I already cherished every day with him before this happened, but even more so now. Thanks be to God. Peggy
He had the PIC line put in this morning before I got there, but that didn't seem to be a big deal. He also walked all the way down the hall twice - I think the therpist said 200 feet or so. But the best part was that when he was done he didn't immediately fall asleep! He stayed up in the chair from 10:30 this morning until he got back into bed at 8:00 tonight. Oh, and he was reading the paper and magazines, too. I have been watching for his insatiable interest in reading to return. Today was the day.
So it was a VERY good day on a lot of fronts despite the negligent nurse he had today ... I was glad I was sitting there to help him with stuff - she was nowhere to be found for hours at a time! But she is not the norm at St. Elizabeth's, luckily. He has had wonderful care which has allowed me to sleep peacefully at night.
Dr. Kolla came to see him this afternoon and sat down and chatted for a while. He said they are taking things slowly but that he is very pleased with Mike's progress. He thought that mid to late week he can expect to come home. So, all is well ... God is good ... I believe in miracles ... and the power of love and prayer. I am very happy just sitting near him all day - there is no place I would rather be. I already cherished every day with him before this happened, but even more so now. Thanks be to God. Peggy
Sunday, March 29, 2009
Of Visitors, Cat Naps and Tiger's Win
Greetings friends and family! Mike and I had a nice Sunday today -- I finished reading my book while Mike slept in between visitors. We also watched Tiger win again, so that was fun. I enjoyed having people stop by today - it was good to see people, and it broke up the day. Please don't be offended if you visit and Mike is sleepy ... every little thing really wears him out and he takes lots of little cat naps. His nurse for tonight (Mike the Nurse) promised to let him get a good long sleep ... which is exactly what he needs right now.
He is doing well. The cardiologist said today that he (Mike) is getting boring and that is excellent - he likes boring, he said. They took away lots of the tubes today, and more will be taken away tomorrow ... great progress is being made! Nobody has made any mention yet about when he will be going home ... so no time soon, I guess.
So, yes, he is taking visitors. Brett pointed out that I have his room number wrong in the previous blog - sorry, it was late when I wrote it. He is in room 2102. If you do come, please just stay a few minutes - that's all the energy he has right now. It exhausts him just to walk from the bed to the chair. His endurance will increase as the days go by, but right now there isn't much!
He was very glad to hear that Gloria Dei got along so well without him today - but that they missed him, too. Both wonderful things! We send blessings and much gratitude to everyone. Thank you for caring - we feel your love! Peggy
He is doing well. The cardiologist said today that he (Mike) is getting boring and that is excellent - he likes boring, he said. They took away lots of the tubes today, and more will be taken away tomorrow ... great progress is being made! Nobody has made any mention yet about when he will be going home ... so no time soon, I guess.
So, yes, he is taking visitors. Brett pointed out that I have his room number wrong in the previous blog - sorry, it was late when I wrote it. He is in room 2102. If you do come, please just stay a few minutes - that's all the energy he has right now. It exhausts him just to walk from the bed to the chair. His endurance will increase as the days go by, but right now there isn't much!
He was very glad to hear that Gloria Dei got along so well without him today - but that they missed him, too. Both wonderful things! We send blessings and much gratitude to everyone. Thank you for caring - we feel your love! Peggy
Saturday, March 28, 2009
Highs and Lows
I spent most of the day with Mike today, just hanging out in his room. Hospitals are a very strange world! He didn't get much sleep last night because they kept adjusting things, according to him ... so he was agitated this morning when I got there (most of you will be amazed that Mike can ever be agitated, right?). Overall it was a pretty quiet day (his roommate went home, which was nice), although he had a few moments of distress. I think it was really sinking in to him today just how long a process this recover will be. I was glad I was there to help keep him calm and encouraged.
Everyone's cards and emails and notes have been such a wonderful support. Thank you again. He has been enjoying reading them. Megan and Luke and the boys stopped by today for a few minutes, and that certainly distracted him for awhile! It was great to see them! I think Beth is going to bring his mom up tomorrow.
I'm off to put my feet up and have a glass of wine. Yes, I have been taking care of myself, for all of you who keep asking. I've had my low moments, too, but that is to be expected. Your prayers and good thoughts are definitely holding both of us up. Bless you! Peggy
Everyone's cards and emails and notes have been such a wonderful support. Thank you again. He has been enjoying reading them. Megan and Luke and the boys stopped by today for a few minutes, and that certainly distracted him for awhile! It was great to see them! I think Beth is going to bring his mom up tomorrow.
I'm off to put my feet up and have a glass of wine. Yes, I have been taking care of myself, for all of you who keep asking. I've had my low moments, too, but that is to be expected. Your prayers and good thoughts are definitely holding both of us up. Bless you! Peggy
Friday, March 27, 2009
Making Great Progress - Thanks Be To God!
Mike had a sleepy day today -- probably because he hasn't slept much since Wednesday morning -- but he also had a few wonderful milestones. He was moved to a new room this morning - outside of intensive care (yea). His room number is 2108. He took two walks today - from his bed to the door in the morning, and then down the hall in the afternoon. No wonder he slept all afternoon! He also sat up in the chair most of the time he was awake today.
He is still connected to LOTS of wires and tubes, so moving around is a real challenge, but he is doing it with the help of some wonderful nurses and aides. We continue to be very happy with the care he is getting at St. Elizabeth's.
I was able to hang out with him today for longer than a few minutes at a time, so that was really nice. I made him stay awake while I was there this evening, so hopefully he will be able to sleep tonight. I read him all of the blog comments and cards he has received and he is very grateful and quite humbled by all of the prayers and good wishes. Keep them coming!! I imagine he will be in the hospital at least until next Tuesday ... don't know beyond that. We are so thankful for the many many people who have been lifting us up in prayer -- it is working!!
This blog will probably (hopefully) become more boring now that he is slowly progressing toward health ... but isn't that wonderful?? I'll report again tomorrow! Peggy
He is still connected to LOTS of wires and tubes, so moving around is a real challenge, but he is doing it with the help of some wonderful nurses and aides. We continue to be very happy with the care he is getting at St. Elizabeth's.
I was able to hang out with him today for longer than a few minutes at a time, so that was really nice. I made him stay awake while I was there this evening, so hopefully he will be able to sleep tonight. I read him all of the blog comments and cards he has received and he is very grateful and quite humbled by all of the prayers and good wishes. Keep them coming!! I imagine he will be in the hospital at least until next Tuesday ... don't know beyond that. We are so thankful for the many many people who have been lifting us up in prayer -- it is working!!
This blog will probably (hopefully) become more boring now that he is slowly progressing toward health ... but isn't that wonderful?? I'll report again tomorrow! Peggy
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Ellie Jr. Visiting Dad
Ellie's working at Build-A-Bear in Columbus, OH. She sent this bear to dad in her stead since she cannot come home until Easter. Ellie is cuter, but this will do.
Slow But Steady Progress!
Sorry this is so late tonight -- this is one of the most exhausting things we've ever had to do!! Beth and I spent the day at the hospital, seeing Mike for a few minutes every hour or so. It seemed like every time we went in there they had to do something and we had to leave ... very frustrating! He is doing well ... he sat up in the chair twice today, once for two hours and then again later for five hours. Both efforts exhausted him completely and moving is very painful, but he is being a trooper! His biggest concern seems to be that I have nowhere to sit when I'm in there with him -- so he's acting pretty normal - being concerned about others instead of himself!
We're hoping he gets moved out of the cardiac recovery room tomorrow into a room with chairs! We weren't sure today if he stayed there for the great one-on-one care or because there weren't any rooms available. He's still hooked up to tons of stuff, so it takes three people to help him move, but they say he is making good progress. He seemed to have a little more energy tonight than he did this morning ... sleeping is difficult, of course (it always is in hospitals).
This seems rather disjointed - sorry. It has been a long couple of days. I've been getting plenty of opportunities to sleep, but it is fitful sleep. Megan and the boys came up to hospital this afternoon and Beth and I watched them in the waiting room while Meg went in to see Mike. It was a nice distraction to be with the three little tornadoes. We took a picture of the boys and brought it in to show Mike, and then we took a picture of Mike to show the boys (William had lots of questions - and a picture is worth a thousand words!). Beth is going to try and attached the picture to this for me.
So, thanks for your continued prayers and good thoughts. It is a tedious process to allow one's heart to recover from a shocking day such as Tuesday was. We are forever grateful for each and every one of your prayers - they are definitely holding us all up! With love, Peggy
We're hoping he gets moved out of the cardiac recovery room tomorrow into a room with chairs! We weren't sure today if he stayed there for the great one-on-one care or because there weren't any rooms available. He's still hooked up to tons of stuff, so it takes three people to help him move, but they say he is making good progress. He seemed to have a little more energy tonight than he did this morning ... sleeping is difficult, of course (it always is in hospitals).
This seems rather disjointed - sorry. It has been a long couple of days. I've been getting plenty of opportunities to sleep, but it is fitful sleep. Megan and the boys came up to hospital this afternoon and Beth and I watched them in the waiting room while Meg went in to see Mike. It was a nice distraction to be with the three little tornadoes. We took a picture of the boys and brought it in to show Mike, and then we took a picture of Mike to show the boys (William had lots of questions - and a picture is worth a thousand words!). Beth is going to try and attached the picture to this for me.
So, thanks for your continued prayers and good thoughts. It is a tedious process to allow one's heart to recover from a shocking day such as Tuesday was. We are forever grateful for each and every one of your prayers - they are definitely holding us all up! With love, Peggy
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
He's Smiling and Joking!
Mike is doing great today ... I am so relieved! He is smiling and making his usual clever jokes, and was drinking juice when I left him earlier this afternoon. He is still in the Cardiac Recovery Room of the Cardiac Intensive Care, and I expect he will be through tomorrow as well. This is ok with me, because that means they are monitoring him very closely! The physicians and nursing staff have been so wonderful ... he is in very good hands. I'll be going back this evening (I had to come home to take a nap too!); I only spend a few minutes at a time with him so as not to tire him out. Once he is in a "regular" intensive care room - maybe tomorrow - I'll be able to go in and hang out with him for longer. I marvel at the miracles God can work! Thank you for your support and your prayers. Keep praying! Peggy
Quick note from Meg
Just got word that the breathing tube is out and Dad can breathe and talk on his own! Yippee!
Update from Megan
Hello everyone! I just got off the phone with Mom. She just visited Dad and things are going pretty well. The pump that was helping his heart adjust last night was removed this morning. He is still on the ventilator, but is breathing on his own. We are hopeful he can be taken off of that sometime today. He was alert and responding (via smiles, nods and head shakes) during the visit.
My mom requests that the prayers keep coming as we are still in a critical time. But the prayers have certainly helped thus far! We have quite the crowd praying and sending good wishes. Thank you all so much!
I'll update again as I'm able!
Megan
My mom requests that the prayers keep coming as we are still in a critical time. But the prayers have certainly helped thus far! We have quite the crowd praying and sending good wishes. Thank you all so much!
I'll update again as I'm able!
Megan
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Out Of Surgery, But Not Out of the Woods
Thank you thank you thank you to everyone who has been praying for Mike, me, the surgery team, etc. today ... your prayers have made a HUGE difference!! Please don't stop .. the next 24-48 hours are critical!
Here's the long and short of it: the surgeon said that his heart was in even worse condition than he thought before the surgery, but he was very pleased and "relieved" that Mike did as well in surgery as he did ... 5 bypasses and a mitral valve repair ... 10 hours ... a very long day!
We were able to see him this evening and he recognized my voice immediately and was aware of our being there, moving his arms and legs on command. The problem was, he still has the ventilator tube in tonight and a heart pump to help his heart heal and slowly get used to all the new blood flowing to it. They will keep him sedated tonight and hopefully will be able to pull the tube and heart pump in the morning. So he was frustrated tonight that he couldn't talk yet, but they will keep him very comfortably sedated tonight.
The next 24-48 hours are critical, so please keep up the wonderful prayer vigil. I think the surgeon is amazed at how well he is doing ... I'm not ... miracles happen with prayer. We will all get through this together ... thank you so much for your support ... my heart is full! Special thanks to all of the pastors who stopped by today to offer support and prayers, and for Megan, Beth and Ellie and my sister, Tricia, for being such pillars of support today. I'm planning on being at the hospital most of the day tomorrow again. Feel free to call Meg if you need an update ... and Beth has been Twittering, if you want to follow that. You can follow it at twitter.com/bethcrawford04 -- I think Twitter is weird, but she says is it is great??!! I'll report again tomorrow night.
Thanks again. As Mike would say, "God is great! All the time!" Peggy
Here's the long and short of it: the surgeon said that his heart was in even worse condition than he thought before the surgery, but he was very pleased and "relieved" that Mike did as well in surgery as he did ... 5 bypasses and a mitral valve repair ... 10 hours ... a very long day!
We were able to see him this evening and he recognized my voice immediately and was aware of our being there, moving his arms and legs on command. The problem was, he still has the ventilator tube in tonight and a heart pump to help his heart heal and slowly get used to all the new blood flowing to it. They will keep him sedated tonight and hopefully will be able to pull the tube and heart pump in the morning. So he was frustrated tonight that he couldn't talk yet, but they will keep him very comfortably sedated tonight.
The next 24-48 hours are critical, so please keep up the wonderful prayer vigil. I think the surgeon is amazed at how well he is doing ... I'm not ... miracles happen with prayer. We will all get through this together ... thank you so much for your support ... my heart is full! Special thanks to all of the pastors who stopped by today to offer support and prayers, and for Megan, Beth and Ellie and my sister, Tricia, for being such pillars of support today. I'm planning on being at the hospital most of the day tomorrow again. Feel free to call Meg if you need an update ... and Beth has been Twittering, if you want to follow that. You can follow it at twitter.com/bethcrawford04 -- I think Twitter is weird, but she says is it is great??!! I'll report again tomorrow night.
Thanks again. As Mike would say, "God is great! All the time!" Peggy
Sunday, March 22, 2009
Contact Information
Lots of people have been asking information about the hospital, who to phone, that kind of thing. So here's a little information that may help: Mike will be at St. Elizabeth Regional Hospital, 1501 Hartford Street, Lafayette, IN 47904 (765)423-6011. He will be entering the hospital at 5:00 a.m. (yikes) Tuesday, March 24th. We expect him to be in surgery Tuesday, then intensive care for one to two days, then in a regular room for an additional 3-5 days.
If you want to talk to someone about his progress, you can call Irma Schiery from Gloria Dei (765) 296-2098 - she'll be sending information along the prayer chain; or Megan Crawford Bickel (317) 295-0676; or Beth Crawford (317) 529-2082. Beth will be with me in the hospital on Tuesday, so she won't be available to answer her phone. My lovely sister, Tricia will also be with me on Tuesday - she is a nurse, so she can be our interpreter when they are speaking medicalese.
We remain in good spirits and Mike has been taking it easy, as he has been directed. I hope he continues to be a good patient all week ... I'll let you know if he isn't!! :) Thanks for your continued prayers and positive thoughts! I'll be in touch. Peggy
If you want to talk to someone about his progress, you can call Irma Schiery from Gloria Dei (765) 296-2098 - she'll be sending information along the prayer chain; or Megan Crawford Bickel (317) 295-0676; or Beth Crawford (317) 529-2082. Beth will be with me in the hospital on Tuesday, so she won't be available to answer her phone. My lovely sister, Tricia will also be with me on Tuesday - she is a nurse, so she can be our interpreter when they are speaking medicalese.
We remain in good spirits and Mike has been taking it easy, as he has been directed. I hope he continues to be a good patient all week ... I'll let you know if he isn't!! :) Thanks for your continued prayers and positive thoughts! I'll be in touch. Peggy
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Word came from the surgeon's office this afternoon that the pre-operative tests results were all good and we can move forward. They did, however, reschedule the surgery for Tuesday the 24th. The times remain the same: be there at 5:00 a.m., enter the operating room at 7:00 a.m.
Peggy and I are doing well. We were psyched up for Monday so the delay is a little disappointing. I am trying to limit my work activity to a half day in the office and doing whatever else is required at home via phone or the internet. I do have some pastoral visits I hope to accomplish too. I plan to preach this Sunday then let parish responsibilities go for awhile. The people of Gloria Dei are doing a great job in making arrangements for my absence. The church, especially in its expression as Gloria Dei, is really quite remarkable. Thanks be to God.
-Mike
Peggy and I are doing well. We were psyched up for Monday so the delay is a little disappointing. I am trying to limit my work activity to a half day in the office and doing whatever else is required at home via phone or the internet. I do have some pastoral visits I hope to accomplish too. I plan to preach this Sunday then let parish responsibilities go for awhile. The people of Gloria Dei are doing a great job in making arrangements for my absence. The church, especially in its expression as Gloria Dei, is really quite remarkable. Thanks be to God.
-Mike
Monday, March 16, 2009
We're Blogging .... We're Blogging
Some very wise person suggested we start a blog to keep everyone up-to-date on Mike's progress through this journey of the heart. I really liked the idea since I had already encouraged him to journal during the next couple of months and to maybe even share those journals with others. He can't be actively involved at Gloria Dei and with the other pastors in the deanery, but he can still write ... so this could be a great way for him to do that.
So, it is begun. We'll keep you posted. Thanks for caring and for your prayers! Peggy
So, it is begun. We'll keep you posted. Thanks for caring and for your prayers! Peggy
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